The Good Wife’s Guide « Thread Started on Jan 25, 2009, 11:57am »
THE GOOD WIFE’S GUIDE
* Have dinner ready. Plan ahead, even the night before, to have a delicious dinner ready, on time for his return. This is a way of letting him know that you have been thinking about him and are concerned about his needs. Most men are hungry when they come home and the prospect of a good meal (especially his favourite dish) is part of the warm welcome needed. * Prepare yourself. Take 15 minutes to rest so you’ll be refreshed when he arrives. Touch up your make-up, put a ribbon in your hair and be fresh-looking. he has just been with a lot of work-weary people. * Be a little gay and a little more interesting for him. His boring day may need a lift and one of your duties is to provide it. * Prepare the children. Take a few minutes to wash the children’s hands and faces (if they are small), comb their hair and if necessary change their clothes. They are little treasures and he would like to see them playing the part. * Be happy to see him. * Listen to him. You may have a dozen things to tell him but the moment of is arrival is not the time. Let him talk first - remember, his topics of conversation are more important than yours. * Make the evening his. Never complain if he comes home late, or goes out to dinner or other places of entertainment without you. Instead, try to understand his world of strain and pressure. * Make him comfortable. Have him lean back in a comfortable chair or have him lie down in the bedroom. have a warm or cool drink ready for him. * Arrange his pillow and offer to take off his shoes. Speak in a low, soothing and pleasant voice. * Don’t ask him questions about his actions or question his judgement or integrity. remember he is the master of the house and as such will always excercise his will with fairness and truthfulness. You have no right to question him. * A good wife always knows her place.
What you guys think of it? Married women used to be like the Good Wife’s Guide as this is a good guide. You still see women are feminine in developing countries and many countries where English is not widely spoken. Keep, save, print or spread The Good Wife’s Guide if you wish in jpg and or pdf as it is free.
Re: The Good Wife’s Guide « Reply #2 on May 19, 2009, 3:24am »
this is a good info that everyone should know specially the married couple,.! this is a part of the married life that the women should give the need of her husband... in this way, for sure the married life will be successful...!
Re: The Good Wife’s Guide « Reply #3 on May 19, 2009, 10:42am »
What women do not understand is this sort of treatment, I refer to the large number of stay at home moms, not the women who work the same hours, gives a woman near total control over a men.
The current method of control is to be in his face; with insults; refused sex; and demands 24/7. Any man treated that way will withdraw emotionally even if he does what she demands.
The woman who makes a fuss as in this guide will find her husband doing anything he can think of to make her happy.
Twenty years ago I was sitting at coffee break with a slightly chubby, but attractive woman I worked with, who had an excellent smile.
Here I am, Joe Testosterone, the militant MRA activist.
She loaned me half her newspaper. I read an article, one of those feminist things, about some whiny thing about marriage.
I told her, let's call her Jenny, that modern women were screwed up. Women who shout at their husbands, etc. are dumb. I told her a smart woman would tell her husband every day what a swell guy he was, and how she could not survive without him. If they did that, the men would work themselves to death for the woman.
She looked around to make sure no one was listening, then said, "Irlandes, I've always known that. I hope my husband never finds out what I am doing to him. He treats me like a queen."
I chuckled and told her, "He probably knows, but he doesn't care, as long as you keep treating him that way."
Just then the bell rang for end of coffee break.
She took the newspaper and started to fold it. She gave me a full megawatt smile, and said, "Irlandes, I am really busy today. I need to go to the other end of the building to get some parts. Do you think you could find time to go? It would really help me."
It was about a half hour walk.
I was halfway there when it came over me what she had just done! I thought, "Damn, she is good!"
So, did I turn around and go back, and tell her I had figured it out and she could get her own $#%& parts? Heck, no, I kept on trucking. I knew when I got back she was going to give me the megawatt smile again, and tell me just how much I had helped her.
At that moment, I envied her husband. If she got me, the militant MRA, to to that with no more than a smile, I can't even imagine what her husband would do for a heavy promise!
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Re: The Good Wife’s Guide « Reply #5 on May 19, 2009, 5:37pm »
superbad- not if they are married.........
"Next" is a word that men are very afraid to speak once they realize they have taken the plunge. It's like trying to breathe underwater, it doesn't work so well.
But I agree with you. A long time dating or going out or pro-longed engagement, enables you say the word "Next". It's just a shame most men don't seem to do that these days.
« Last Edit: May 19, 2009, 5:38pm by arcangel911 »
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Re: The Good Wife’s Guide « Reply #6 on May 19, 2009, 7:17pm »
exactly arcangel911... most i dumped... a few i stalled and they walked. i have friends that married out of fear of being alone... female psyops... now they are alone... slaves... and basically screwed.
Re: The Good Wife’s Guide « Reply #7 on May 20, 2009, 11:12am »
I worked with an old guy, very sociable, but he could not stand to be alone. If his wife went out for the evening, he called until he found someone to come visit him, or he could go visit. Not even for three hours could he stand to be alone.
A very young man told me when he was in electronics school, his room-mates worked nights, so night after night, he was alone, and it almost killed him. He was married, and said he would do anything to keep from ever being alone again. The inability to ever be alone is NOT survival skill, but it does explain why some men marry. Oh, man, oh, man! Poor devils.
I gotta' wonder what makes men that unable to be self-sufficient for even a few hours. I suppose it could be just individual personality, we humans are all over the place.
I told her, let's call her Jenny, that modern women were screwed up. Women who shout at their husbands, etc. are dumb. I told her a smart woman would tell her husband every day what a swell guy he was, and how she could not survive without him. If they did that, the men would work themselves to death for the woman.
She looked around to make sure no one was listening, then said, "Irlandes, I've always known that. I hope my husband never finds out what I am doing to him. He treats me like a queen."
I was just watching some old Kim Novak movies from the 50s, one called Bell, Book and Candle from 1958 shows what truly feminine women possesses in terms of power over men (and yes it is a form of witchcraft). This is the same era as the Good Wife's Guide and shows a completely different level of sophistication that women of that era had over today's women. Sometimes I wish I were born 20 years earlier when women knew how to be women I would've more then likely married, not like today's masculine women who have no sex appeal whatsoever or have the sex appeal of a hooker looking for her next trick. Nowadays the little wifey maybe a pole dancing skank and that's called acceptable marriage material!
I told her, let's call her Jenny, that modern women were screwed up. Women who shout at their husbands, etc. are dumb. I told her a smart woman would tell her husband every day what a swell guy he was, and how she could not survive without him. If they did that, the men would work themselves to death for the woman.
She looked around to make sure no one was listening, then said, "Irlandes, I've always known that. I hope my husband never finds out what I am doing to him. He treats me like a queen."
I was just watching some old Kim Novak movies from the 50s, one called Bell, Book and Candle from 1958 shows what truly feminine women possesses in terms of power over men (and yes it is a form of witchcraft). This is the same era as the Good Wife's Guide and shows a completely different level of sophistication that women of that era had over today's women. Sometimes I wish I were born 20 years earlier when women knew how to be women I would've more then likely married, not like today's masculine women who have no sex appeal whatsoever or have the sex appeal of a hooker looking for her next trick. Nowadays the little wifey maybe a pole dancing skank and that's called acceptable marriage material!
Exactly!! They had control over men, and men loved it, just as I was glad to do Jenny's errand because of that megawatts smile she gave me. Hypothetically, if Jenny had said, "See that fierce dragon over there? IF you kill it, I'll give you a quick one in the vibration room," I'd have been over there fighting the evil beast to the death. Those days are gone. Let the dragons eat the women, that'll kill them quick enough.
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